The Hot
What is it to be Hot? To be Gorgeous? To be absolutely Physically desirable? Is it looks or is it charisma?
My good friends Abe and Rio say to me that a person can be physically Beautiful, like a beautiful painting and yet totally unattractive to everyone who see's them, is this true? iv'e asked many people outside and most say that Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder, and if so what is it that they are really beholding, the physical? or are they beholding the spiritual? and others have said to me that they would like a mixture of the two (both attractive on the outside and a good personality to go with it) but that so rarely happens.
I believe that the eyes are a door to a persons spirit,you can read a person by reading their eyes. When the idea of beauty is left to the judgment of the beholder they can find almost anything about the person attractive from the colour of their eyes to the smell of their body, scent and our natural pheromones play a big part in making us attracted to one another but most of all the beholder will find unique to themselves something they can inwardly admire,respect and love in that significant other.
If Beauty were instead a Universal Law instead are we to say that certain people are then naturally more beautiful than others like for instance who is more beautiful to you, Angelina Jolie or Jennifer Aniston
1) Angelina Jolie
Or
2) Jenifer Aniston
Who is more beautiful? Iv'e asked many guys this question and most say to me they find Aniston more beautiful but cannot at the same time deny Angelina's scorching good looks, I know my Best friend Abe Chose Angelina Over Jenifer but most guys i speak to outside prefer and love Jenifer Aniston.
Going purley based on Aesthetics, Angeline does have a more exotic look than jenifer and one could say that she is more beautiful but if beauty is only a shallow term used by superficial people then yes Jolie wins, but if beauty transcends that of the flesh then you Cannot deny Jennifer Aniston and her natural charm and charisma as alot of guys grew up watching her on the friends tv show and grew to love her physically and the character she played "Rachel"
Really and truly Anyone can find Anyone to be Hot, Gorgeous, Desirable because at the end of the day it all comes down to the individuals personal tastes.
The Fit
Another term we love to use, " that Guy or Girl is Fit", a direct reference to a persons bodily appendage ( the glute area or bust or pecs on a man or woman).
I always see guys at the gym torturing themselves by lifting huge weights to achieve some look to become a big bodybuilder like Arnold Schwarzenegger or slim lean and toned like Brad Pitt or David Beckham. Helloooooo!! wake up your body wasn't designed to shape shift to your every whim and fancy a lesson i learned the hard way, just because suddenly Chris Hemsworth Gains a Huge amount of Muscle for his role as "Thor" the viking god doesn't mean you have to aswell. A friend of mine Paul Parker said to me, "be happy with the body you have" and that is so true because we only have one in each and every lifetime.
I also see big Guys starving themselves trying to be thin as well and these are all classic signs of BDD (Body Dysmorphic Disorder), wake up and smell the roses and open your eyes, Your body is your body and like the colour of your skin you cannot change its fundamental working, if you were born as an Ectomorph ( naturally thin and slim guys like Brad Pitt) a Mesomorph ( Naturally lean and well built guys like Mathew Mcconaughey) or endomorph ( Naturally big boned and thickly built guys like Mr T from the A team) then you should find out which one you fundamentally are and work on what you have and develelp it into something truly spectacular.
I remember hearing someone telling me about how people who have been mentally and emotionally abused or gone through some form of trauma make themselves bigger in some way to protect themselves from the pain they feel, whether it be that they devour large amounts of chocolates as most women do when going through a bad break up or whether it be a man lifting more and more to get bigger to hide and run away from his mental and emotional insecurities or abuse because for them, getting bigger is like erecting a thick wall to stand between them and the thing or person attacking them emotionally and mentally
I know when i was 14 i wanted to be just like Arnold, i wanted to be big muscled man and started bodybuilding in hopes one day to achieve that dream, by 19 i was 17 stone and a massive bodybuilder and i could lift a lot of things but i could barely run and walking made me sweat waaaay to much. i then decided i wanted to be super thin like Brad Pitt or some male fashion model id seen in a magazine and trust me i went about and lost over 3 stone in muscle mass and excess weight, i starved as well ( not by choice though, a certain someone starved me one summer) and fell ill from food poisoning as well, i was ill for a week and i lost so much weight i looked gaunt and emaciated after that happened i finally saw the error of my ways, please don't try it yourselves, you all have the unique opportunity not to make the mistakes i foolishly made for myself
A question for all of you Which would you rather be, Big and Muscular like for instance
1) Arnold schwarzenegger
or Thin/slim and toned like
2) Brad Pitt in fight club
Your choice you choose
I know what i would choose, Neither, id want instead my own healthy, well balanced natural physique
The Ugly
Ugly, those 4 words commonly used by people who are desired mostly for their looks against those who aren't desired for their looks at all. Genetics is what decides whether where good looking or not, so for all you men and women out there, be careful who you marry for your kids will be blaming you for the looks that they have.
Really and truly Ugly does exist, not really just in the physical form but in the spiritual to physical form, for a person can be Ugly on the inside and it can shine outwardly for all to see and no matter how exotic or good looking they physically are they are truly ugly, for with all the technological breakthroughs and medical enhancements available now one can have plastic surgery and change the way that they look but if you are an Ugly person through what you say and what you do no amount of plastic surgery will change that so you can put your money away and for once in your life do some honest hard work on yourself and by that im referring to the inner self your spirit.
A friend of mine Judenne said to me "there is no such thing as beauty as we are a sum of our experiences on this earth and that really and truly there is only what IS" and she is very right, i believe that true beauty itself lies with the creator our Lord for he made us and shaped us and we often look at the Lord as such a powerful being but we forget that he's also such a beautiful one for in reality here on earth real beauty is in Nature, is in the animals around us, really and truly true beauty is life itself and that's the gift the creator our lord gave us
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