You know the popular saying, if at first you don't succeed try try again, it doesn't always work because sometimes its just not meant to be. When something just IS, it just Is there's no long thought out process or rhyme or reason It just IS!! Something that took me a loooong time to learn, when your flogging a dead horse, you are flogging a dead horse but never fear where the Lord closes one door i believe he opens a window, for opportunity can strike at any moment in time and will be what makes the difference in our lives that we have so been longing for and waiting for.
The long awaited arrival of success will come but first you need the right key, so what is the right key? talent, hard work,the right connections or basically a weird combo of everything. I know from personal experience with the many instruments that i've played my main instrument growing up was the violin, i played piano, flute and sax as well, i fought so hard to get to the standard i got to on the violin but even with all that hard work and sacrifice i made in order to get where i wanted to be it still wasn't good enough for what i needed to be, a part of me felt that with a touch more hard work i could get there but in truth and reality i was waiting for the one, the one instrument that i would simply just flourish on and just be, no reason or rhyme or looong thought out process, something that simply just IS.
That's when i found the voice, I saw 3 singers in my uni singing one day and i was inspired, i was more than inspired i was hooked, i knew from then that's what i wanted to do with my life, be a singer. It was a lot of hard work but it was simple, everything just felt like it fitted into place and that i finally found me.
Ive been through a similar process like this when it comes to love, let me not bore you with the details but if it doesn't feel right from the start it probably isn't gonna be right in the long run, yes you can both work at a relationship to make it work but really and truly, there should be no "Work" it should just be joyful activity, you shouldn't feel like your trying to overcome obstacles all the time just to get the slightest inch there, if it is it is, if it isnt it isnt
Life should not be hard and take it from someone who's had a hard life, life should just be, yes you work for the things you want in your life but really and truly, that isn't work that is just activity, activity for your soul, activity for your spirit, activity for yourself as soon as it starts to feel like a chore and making very little in terms of your development, you need to evaluate whether its worth it or not because the one thing we don't have in this world is an endless amount of time, the clock does tick and we need to know quickly but surely where to invest our time and our energy
My motto is, if at first you don't succeed try something else, in the long run it will save you time and hassle and especially heartache
